Life is meant for living! So.... Live it to the fullest every day. BDSM affords us the opportunity to live life on a level that most people only dream about. Honesty and communication being the corner stones of our lifestyle.The blend of the BDSM lifestyle and life in general gives us purpose.
The questions are:
Are you on purpose?
What is your purpose?
Is your partner on purpose?
What is your partners purpose?
The BDSM relationship is enhanced when these questions are carefully spoken about and understood by all involved. You will hear me ask often: "Are your needs and wants being met?" If so then your purpose is getting those needs met. If your purpose is pleasing your partner, then that becomes your purpose.
These may seem small and unimportant ideas and concepts. I get it! Some of the ideas and answers I receive for the "On Purpose" concepts are: " Oh I get it!" "It's so easy"? "Oh we do that all the time." These glossed over responses may not be enough.We seem to think that good relationships are founded on feelings and reactions. In reality sexuality inclusive of the BDSM Lifestyle are formed between our two ears in the Brain. As we move further into the lifestyle the anchor of our very style of living becomes: Am I on purpose?
The thought for today is: Am I on purpose? Think about it. Counselors Corner is here for you. I encourage, questions, comments, thoughts and ideas. Please feel free to contact us. Everything is confidential.
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