I am going to lump these two Fetishes together. Different in action, yes, Psychologically different, not. The need, want, desire to cut or pierce is what is called: "Edge Play". I do agree with that explanation. Piercing and Cutting are not for the faint of heart. Again I can not stress the importance of education before action. If mistakes are made with this kind of play, the consequences can be life threatening. Some piercings and cuttings are permanent.
Piercing & Cutting
Both of these fetishes, are power trips that are expressed in absolute ways. There are many variables for both, when viewed separately. Both of these fetishes take time to learn, time to execute, and time for adjustment of the mindset of the people involved. Both of these fetishes are breath taking, and create a sense of awe in spectators, heavy excitment for the paticipants, and changes within all invloved.
History
Cutting and Piercing have been around for a very long time. Slaves have been marked, pierced and even branded throughout recorded history. Some forms of branding, piercing and cuttings, were also used as decorative additions For Kings and Queens and Royalty for many centuries. The methods used long ago were crude, unsanitary and caused many deaths by infections that could not be controlled. Even when having ears, tongues, lips, pierced in those times,simple procedures for today, literally meant taking your life into your own hands. Tribes all around the world used piercing and cutting rituals. Piercing and Cuttings are, therefore not new to our culture. What is NEW is the diseases that are active in our time. Aids, Herpes1,2,3, STDS. GET IT? When ever there are bodily fluids involved BEWARE!
How/ Cutting
Well how now brown cow? To play these games, and to do a scene we need two WILLING people. Cooperation between the Top and Bottom is essential. Communication must be exact in nature at all times. Once the people have been chosen you will need: different gauge needles, disinfectant, gauze pads, sutures for large cuttings, scalpels, knives, Novocain/ Lydocain. a consent form, a place to lay down or a chair for the subject to sit in. The "Ole" Band-Aid are also good to have around. Deepness of the cutting must be discussed with all involved, as will size of the cutting, body placement and permanence. Do not think for a minute that you can be cut at 9:00pm and be healed by 4:00 AM. Once you engage in these types of scenes, the changes are close to being permanent. The slave lays down. The Arms and legs tied to the corners of the table. Let us say that we are going to cut the arm in this scene. The Top/Master/ Mistress will run the tip of the instrument up and down the shape chosen to out line that shape and to stimulate the subject. Eventually the top will exert more pressure to create the cut and the depth of the cut. It can be painful and it can be very pleasurable for both parties. After the cutting is finished the top will apply an anti-bacterial ointment. Some anti-bacterials actually create scaring, so ask your pharmacist before purchasing the oinment of salve.
How/Piercing
The first half of the above paragraph explains the basics for piercing also.
The differences are: the insertion of the needle, duration of the time the needle is left in or taken out. Bleeding is somewhat lighter in nature. Piercings may also involve Body Jewelry. Can be very sensual, erotic, and painful for the bottom, as well as ,exhilarating for the top.
Why Piercings/Cuttings/Brandings?
Like stated before, many times, the Human Mind is an awesome and wonderful thing.
What the mind thinks up ,knows only the limits we place upon it. As fetishes are developed in our childhood and development stages, as we discover them, the drive to engage in them becomes known. If the drive is strong, we may find the desire to engage in these fetish behavior. These kinds of actions satisfy desire, sexuality, pleasure, eroticism and peace for the parties involved. Most of all playing is fun. I think we all like fun and play. Did you know that marking anyone in anyway, created bonding and pocession of that couple to one another? Well it does. Becareful who your partner at all times.
One More Warning
The area you play in should be sterile/clean.
Aids and ST D's are the gifts that keep on giving.
Staff infections of today, don't die easily
Permanent changes in mind, body and soul.
Becareful who you are playing with. KNOW THEM.
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Thursday, January 8, 2009
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
The Fetish of Today Is: Kidnapping Fetish
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Tuesday, January 6, 2009
The Fetish For Today is: Scat
Hello! I hope the readers of these articles in Counselors Corner won't had for the hills when it comes to today's topic. You do not have to like it or partake in any fetish that you find not to your liking. I will remind all of us in the lifestyle that in the bdsm lifestyle, a lifestyle that is "outside the norm or Vanilla society" to be aware that we are supposed to welcome all orphans in our lifestyle and accept others for where they are and what they like/ Please keep this in mind when viewing all my articles
What is Scat?
For several years "poop play" was not spoken about, outside of private circles. It was considered a large deviation from the normal behaviors of society. Looking at this closer I noticed much literature on the subject of Babies who will play in their feces . Most Pediatricians described it as a "normal phase" that the child would out grow with some direction and urging from the parent figure. I remember going through this phase with my own children. I did as the Pediatrician said, and it ended. I gave it no thought until I went to write this article.
Psychology
Most of us respond to the same stimuli that most living creatures respond to. they are known as the senses. Smelling, touching, seeing tasting and hearing. What is interesting is that we all respond in different degrees to each stimuli. Some people respond to touch while others respond to seeing and others respond to hearing. People who embrace Scat as a fetish, are seemingly more tactile, (respond to touch) on a very high level. The very touch of warm, smooth, creamy textures as well as the smell, put them into "Fetish head Space". I do not ask for you to understand this. I am only sharing this information for educational purposes. I know that you will think, yeeech! I understand this, however, in many ways, Scat is intimate in nature as well as bdsm in form. The Dom or Dom me' is sharing one of the most intimate things that the human body produces. The slave or sub is also bonding with the very essence of their partner. In so doing the Dom and slave are sharing an experience that most of us will never venture to have. Again..notice the Tops and Bottoms behaviors, creating the bdsm bond that we all crave. Most slaves and subs long for the feeling of having no control. Dom's and Dome's want to control it all. In Scat play that is what is going happening.
Warning! Warning! Danger! Danger!
Scat can be dangerous to your health and to all involved. Feces attacks the Immune system and staff infections, and even parasites can be found in stool. I will say that a hard Penis or still swollen clit can know no bounds. I will also say, clean yourself well before you play and after you play with a Bacterial soap. Short Scat sessions should not cause any major concern. It is when a Master may leave a slave, to sit in his poop that bacteria and staff germs have time to form and enter the body. If you have cuts, scrapes or any open skin you are very much at risk. If you put excrement by your Genitals you are asking for an infection. At lease... annoying....at most... it can turn very dangerous.
So why
Now that's a question I often wonder about. Here is what I have come up with after many years in the lifestyle. You have heard this from me before. A stiff cock and a hard clit know NO boundaries. Simple and concise, easy to control, NOT!
Techniques
I will only discuss a few techniques here. Remember the human brain creates whatever we direct it to create. 1. Scat play is introduced by Mistress or Master, Top or Bottom by actual deification on their property. 2. Slave or sub are directed to pick it up and smear it in the places directed by the Top. 3. Slave of sub are commanded to sit in it and smear in all over themselves. If you want to add more to this list please email me at four11bdsm@yahoo.com
All in All
Scat is not really as "far out" as we in the bdsm lifestyle think. For some it is gross, sickening, smelly and unacceptable. For others it is shear Bliss. I will say again, it has many of the same elements of Power and submission that the bdsm lifestyle gives to us. I also view certain fetish behaviors as a television station. When something is on the Cable or Satellite, that I do not like, I can change the channel, and I do.
Counselors Corner is a MW production2009c and is written for 411bdsm.com
If you are having mental health issues please contact a mental health care professional in person.
We encourage community involvement. Questions and comments will be posted, anonymity protected.
I will be glad to help anyone in the lifestyle. Please email me here or at: four11bdsm@yahoo.com
What is Scat?
For several years "poop play" was not spoken about, outside of private circles. It was considered a large deviation from the normal behaviors of society. Looking at this closer I noticed much literature on the subject of Babies who will play in their feces . Most Pediatricians described it as a "normal phase" that the child would out grow with some direction and urging from the parent figure. I remember going through this phase with my own children. I did as the Pediatrician said, and it ended. I gave it no thought until I went to write this article.
Psychology
Most of us respond to the same stimuli that most living creatures respond to. they are known as the senses. Smelling, touching, seeing tasting and hearing. What is interesting is that we all respond in different degrees to each stimuli. Some people respond to touch while others respond to seeing and others respond to hearing. People who embrace Scat as a fetish, are seemingly more tactile, (respond to touch) on a very high level. The very touch of warm, smooth, creamy textures as well as the smell, put them into "Fetish head Space". I do not ask for you to understand this. I am only sharing this information for educational purposes. I know that you will think, yeeech! I understand this, however, in many ways, Scat is intimate in nature as well as bdsm in form. The Dom or Dom me' is sharing one of the most intimate things that the human body produces. The slave or sub is also bonding with the very essence of their partner. In so doing the Dom and slave are sharing an experience that most of us will never venture to have. Again..notice the Tops and Bottoms behaviors, creating the bdsm bond that we all crave. Most slaves and subs long for the feeling of having no control. Dom's and Dome's want to control it all. In Scat play that is what is going happening.
Warning! Warning! Danger! Danger!
Scat can be dangerous to your health and to all involved. Feces attacks the Immune system and staff infections, and even parasites can be found in stool. I will say that a hard Penis or still swollen clit can know no bounds. I will also say, clean yourself well before you play and after you play with a Bacterial soap. Short Scat sessions should not cause any major concern. It is when a Master may leave a slave, to sit in his poop that bacteria and staff germs have time to form and enter the body. If you have cuts, scrapes or any open skin you are very much at risk. If you put excrement by your Genitals you are asking for an infection. At lease... annoying....at most... it can turn very dangerous.
So why
Now that's a question I often wonder about. Here is what I have come up with after many years in the lifestyle. You have heard this from me before. A stiff cock and a hard clit know NO boundaries. Simple and concise, easy to control, NOT!
Techniques
I will only discuss a few techniques here. Remember the human brain creates whatever we direct it to create. 1. Scat play is introduced by Mistress or Master, Top or Bottom by actual deification on their property. 2. Slave or sub are directed to pick it up and smear it in the places directed by the Top. 3. Slave of sub are commanded to sit in it and smear in all over themselves. If you want to add more to this list please email me at four11bdsm@yahoo.com
All in All
Scat is not really as "far out" as we in the bdsm lifestyle think. For some it is gross, sickening, smelly and unacceptable. For others it is shear Bliss. I will say again, it has many of the same elements of Power and submission that the bdsm lifestyle gives to us. I also view certain fetish behaviors as a television station. When something is on the Cable or Satellite, that I do not like, I can change the channel, and I do.
Counselors Corner is a MW production2009c and is written for 411bdsm.com
If you are having mental health issues please contact a mental health care professional in person.
We encourage community involvement. Questions and comments will be posted, anonymity protected.
I will be glad to help anyone in the lifestyle. Please email me here or at: four11bdsm@yahoo.com
Monday, January 5, 2009
The Topic For Today is: Fetish/Enema
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Saturday, January 3, 2009
The Topic Of Today is: Types of Fetishes
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Friday, January 2, 2009
Todays Topic Is: Fetishes
Today I want to talk about Fetishes. We all have them, even Vanillas have them.
As stated before, sexuality, what we like, what we love, what we need are all inside of us and programed at a very young age. We spend many years discovering what those Fetishes are, and how we are going to work them into our lives. Some of us deny them, and some of us become afraid of them. No matter what we do with them, "they are in there".
Different
We are more different in our sexuality then we are in how we look. We are also more different in what we think than how we look to one another.
Choices
We live by making choices. The best way to choose anything we do, especially in the area of Fetishes is to gather information, process the information, and discuss it with your significant other. Again...DISCUSS IT WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER!
Judgement
Well of course use good judgement in all things you do. The judgement I wish to mention is JUDGING OTHERS? Why do we bdsm folk judge others so harshly?
When I went down the stairs to my first play party and meeting, I could not believe what I saw. All people, different shapes sizes, color, creeds, and all seemingly had made different lifestyle choices. I wanted to run, to hide, and not come back. I stayed. It was wonderful! It was also a wonderful time to LEARN ABOUT MYSELF!
SO I ASK AGAIN; WHY DO WE JUDGE OTHERS IN THE LIFESTYLE AND IN SURROUNDING LIFESTYLES SO HARSHLY.
We Yell and we cry and we talk
We yell out to the Vanilla word. We are no different than you. The only thing that is different is our sexuality. I have been in those conversations many times. Then I think about how the people in the dungeon or at a Munch or at a club meeting do not accept other people with other fetishes. Can anyone tell me why?
The Reason
The reason our mind does this judging, rejecting thing is out of fear. Fear of not understanding, fear of difference, fear of being lumped together with others that are different than ourselves.
What to do.
Accept others for who what the are. We all want to be accepted. We all want to belong.
Maybe if we accept others as they are, Fetishes included, we will be accepted by others that we want to be accepted by.
Fetishes
Tomorrow I will discuss some of the different fetishes that we all have or all that we have to deal with.
In conclusion
We must all learn to treat others as we want to be treated.
If you are having mental health problems, please contact an in person mental health care professional.
MW production2009c published and written for: 411BDSM
Questions, issues, comments are appreciated. We will protect your anonymity
As stated before, sexuality, what we like, what we love, what we need are all inside of us and programed at a very young age. We spend many years discovering what those Fetishes are, and how we are going to work them into our lives. Some of us deny them, and some of us become afraid of them. No matter what we do with them, "they are in there".
Different
We are more different in our sexuality then we are in how we look. We are also more different in what we think than how we look to one another.
Choices
We live by making choices. The best way to choose anything we do, especially in the area of Fetishes is to gather information, process the information, and discuss it with your significant other. Again...DISCUSS IT WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER!
Judgement
Well of course use good judgement in all things you do. The judgement I wish to mention is JUDGING OTHERS? Why do we bdsm folk judge others so harshly?
When I went down the stairs to my first play party and meeting, I could not believe what I saw. All people, different shapes sizes, color, creeds, and all seemingly had made different lifestyle choices. I wanted to run, to hide, and not come back. I stayed. It was wonderful! It was also a wonderful time to LEARN ABOUT MYSELF!
SO I ASK AGAIN; WHY DO WE JUDGE OTHERS IN THE LIFESTYLE AND IN SURROUNDING LIFESTYLES SO HARSHLY.
We Yell and we cry and we talk
We yell out to the Vanilla word. We are no different than you. The only thing that is different is our sexuality. I have been in those conversations many times. Then I think about how the people in the dungeon or at a Munch or at a club meeting do not accept other people with other fetishes. Can anyone tell me why?
The Reason
The reason our mind does this judging, rejecting thing is out of fear. Fear of not understanding, fear of difference, fear of being lumped together with others that are different than ourselves.
What to do.
Accept others for who what the are. We all want to be accepted. We all want to belong.
Maybe if we accept others as they are, Fetishes included, we will be accepted by others that we want to be accepted by.
Fetishes
Tomorrow I will discuss some of the different fetishes that we all have or all that we have to deal with.
In conclusion
We must all learn to treat others as we want to be treated.
If you are having mental health problems, please contact an in person mental health care professional.
MW production2009c published and written for: 411BDSM
Questions, issues, comments are appreciated. We will protect your anonymity
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